And so the myth, perpetuates, which does immense damage in of its self. Shame on you.
Scenario:
Male child, abused sexually, for six years, 10-16. Spends next twenty odd years, trying to recover. He marries, and at some point, recieves the info he's going to be a DAD. Wonderful, but, this and a very misguided belief in the nasty myth, that the abused abuse, leads to minor breakdown, with pain, long buried, revisted. Just at the time, when all Joy should be breaking out. Needs "expert" advice to finally dispel, this incidious, nasty, misguided, ignorant idea. Upshot, Family doing well, scars fading again, but, suffering will never be forgotten.
