Onepot, it has come to pass in our debate here that I agree with you 100%, in that abused do not necessarily become abusers. We agree invariably on that now, mate, and concede that is a myth.In fact, a lot of "google" searches come up with the information under the heading of "Myth".
So, sorry if initially giving that myth credibility gave you pain. We have now learnt otherwise.
cheers
GZ
