lol catlover. I hear ya.You're obviously quite young, from your views. And yes, you tell it like it IS NOW. What I was trying to say, was that the OLD status quo worked better, and people didnt "act" roles, they "lived" their roles instinctively.
"Men like to have a woman by his side"..(Yes).. "at his call"..(hopefully, yes).. "Come hither, dear wife.....".
When I get married again, I will have a wife who is my "mate" -literally. I will keep her in wordly goods,and in this she will work WITH me; she will be at my side because she wants to be.We will provide for each other's physical & emotional needs.We will be soul-mates. She can be liberated in that she doesnt have to wear a bra, lol. Germain Greer-type liberation ends there. And if I catch her reading subversive literature like "Cosmopolitan" or "Truly Liberated", etc frequently, I will give her severance pay.
I am not a chauvinist. I actually HATE chauvinists. In fact there's only one thing I hate more than a chauvinist..and thats........ .... .. .. .. ..a woman who... .. .. ..wont do.... ... .. ....what she's told!