elpus great post I know what you mean that you could miss potential gains, but as I said in my post worst case you pay a little higher to re enter with more faith.
Im not giving up mate this is a addiction more then a job lol, just put this post up for warning to those that dont use a stop, you can get away with it 1,2,3, 4 times but eventually it will get you & its not worth it when a simple rule could have been followed.