these days in reality it takes two incomes mostly to run a home imho and myself i have 2 qualifications i could derive income from outside of the home and it was more viable for my missus to go to work for her career as a nurse(she had just graduated when first was born)and further that nurses need time up their sleeves to progress through the ranks i said i'll make a go of trading and look after first born while you can further your job and chances we both make up for the others downfalls if you know what i mean it's a bit boring at home but i'm used to it now but don't miss getting up early or driving to work of having to put up with others at work + and -'s everywhere lol cheers