Same here Ken. We have an honest open relationship and we love to joke around. I always pick jokes that I like and show them to her. She does the same to me. Her last joke to me was with the two older ladies who had quoits in their hands and a nude guy. The one lady says "as soon as the Viagra kicks in, it's game on". I asked her if that was her, her best friend and me, She replied in your dreams sweetie. It must be sad living in a relationship without love, affection and laughter.