Sorry about your missed opportunity. Re your brother- There is plenty of support in the community for disabled people in and out of the home and for modifying your home etc - you just need to tap into it. A good place to start with your/ his GP. Curious as to what you mean but he has no control over the title of their property. Even if he is not on the title he has entitlements to their property. try one of the free community legal services - they all have family law specialists and property lawyers- re the house and the financial support. Sooner rather than later.
