Sorry I think reading books on real life cases and understanding the psyche based on analysis from eminent experts in the field has alot more weight than on a case that some Hotcopper poster has made judgement on without knowing any of the intricate details just because the child looked happy. Surely you see how silly your comments were. It would be extremely unlikely that poor Chloe did not suffer trauma from the event. And if she didn't you'd sure want to have been involved in the questioning and background of the situation and have the expertise to evaluate that.
I'm sorry about your personal tragic experience but that doesn't make yor opinion more viable.
