what I see is a classic double bind offered by Russia.... 'we'll keep our military firing rockets in your general direction, but meanwhile we'll send these outrageous demands that Ukraine do this and NATO do that and leave us alone, we're only playing by the border

' lol, we mean no harm'
I think there's a strong arrogance, belligerence and a Biggus Dickus kinda swagger in Russia's position... can't you see that?
I have to ask this because it puzzles me.... what is it that you believe wrt US intentions on Russia and wanting to break the country into small "statelets"?
now I do agree that the US has a very long, in modern terms, of dodgy dealings with foreign countries and lying to their people about reasons to invade etc. From the early involvement of CIA installing US mining interests friendly El Presidente to Bush Jnr's war on terror and all the other wars they've created......
but how would US be able to break up Russia?