Re. hitting nerves, I could say the same about you Zeta.
If you check MY previous posts, you will see that I disagree with regard to blame. If someone is loving and faithful, but their partner doesn't tell them there is a problem, you still want to blame the loving, faithful non-cheater? That's your opinion, but it's an opinion that I respectfully don't agree with.
I fully understand that things aren't always black and white, but neither are they always grey.
