a voice for men - take a stand for man's sake, page-52

Lets be honest and call a spade a spade.

You are using the terms "good" and "bad" rather loosely.

If you are getting shafted, you are not "good".

If you are getting shafted, you lack relationship skills.

Having relationship skills is what is "good".

As I suggested, best to get some serious counselling; do some serious workshops.

Why? Because old habits are hard to break. Old dogs and old tricks.

Best wishes