a voice for men - take a stand for man's sake, page-107

Club said:

"He did everything a husband could do for her, except maybe show her the love and support that she needed after her 'still born'."

"But then things turned - she decided that she wanted more, that she needed 'out', and with it take her 2 girls out of the 'family unit'. She decided to venture out of the cave so to speak, and into a world that is dangerous, in particular for her 2 girls."

Personally, I am not a great promoter of feminism because it puts unrealistic ideas in the heads of some women.

Your GF has an "ideal" that she could venture out alone. That she could be INDEPENDENT. Of course, she was unable to. She needed your comfort, your closeness, your support.

Many women do this. As soon as a man disappoints or hurts them in a certain way, this power gets into their head and they think they can go it alone.

Generally, they cannot. I personally do not know many women who can go it alone.

I mentioned a woman in one of my posts who started a business. She left her husband and her two sons are livid about that. But she ended up matching with a man I knew and this new man is the man who dislikes her working in her business.

Now this lady is a hot looking woman. She came to me one day, crying, and said: "I am thinking about leaving him".

I simply replied to her: "And then what are you going to do? Find another man to keep you cosy in your bed? And after that another man?"

Women get on these power trips sometimes.

Sounds like your lady was hurt with her still born and her husband's incapacity to respond.

Humans can be fickle.