I am smart as an adult thanks you very much and won more than my fair share of scholarships such as they are in Australia - not much but I won what was on offer. Did IQ tests as a child but they refused to tell me my score probably assuming I would get big headed. TOO LATE....
I can laugh at myself. A very much higher IQ than 98% of the population causes lots of problems. Some see it as a curse. You have the ability to see things that are not easily seen that virtually everyone else fails to see. My post above being such an example. I don't think anyone else has joined the dots in that respect. Maybe they have but kept it too themselves.
Despite my terrible attribute's woman on a par with Melanie have been my girlfriends ( brains and beauty ) so they see something they like and all this with no alcohol being required.
