Yes, I mentioned earlier that female choice of a mate and female behaviour needs to be looked into as well - not considering nice guys but chasing the bad boys results in DV?????
Bad boys are bad for a reason..... Like what do you think is going to happen with them in the long term? Are you making bad choices?
Menacing men may be menacing ( therefore create the tingles... ) and good protectors if they chose to protect but what is their emotional IQ and ability to handle domestic realties over time without resorting to their preferred tool kit when they get beaten emotively and with word play?
I have an overall positive view of @Parsifal so not going to attack her here @pintohoo. My earlier words were a jest and a challenge to her as is my way.
