Now there is the problem, the likes of whereu is OK UNTIL, you don't roll over and just accept what he says, as then out comes the belittling and insults, the likes of his that you are replying to, 'they' seem to give him a BIG buzz, he gets off on them, it would seem. It's like, my way or the highway.
Hence you need to point the -> "humility" matter his way.