that’s correct. It is none of your business and it was churlish. However many of your comments directed at me express opinions about me that have no relevance to me or how I live my life or my capabilities and they include judgements based on your understanding or experience or expectations of life. Once that sort of thing might have shaped me as I tried to please but that is and was a pathway to hell
my life is rich and varied and I am presented with opportunities to contribute creatively in so many different ways. My range of friends is a beautiful gift and I have been truly blessed. So what someone thinks of me online in a decidedly unidimensional setting is pretty irrelevant