A picture tells 1000 words, page-22

Most people are idealists in this world you would always have a plan and it's not about economic migrants or maybe it is to an extent. I don't think they see how difficult it will be when arriving here but in a idealistic sense you would see the risky and life threatening journey by boat as a risk you wouldn't want to put over your loved ones. It's a general principle of manhood and looking after your family that the man puts the greatest risk on himself over his loved ones and provides for them- I don't think they see the difficulty they face here on arrival from the distant land - the plan is probably something like the man goes first takes the life threatening journey on the rickety boat, finds a job, finds a house and can then afford to bring their family to a safer land.

What would you do ? Send your wife on the rickety boat that might sink to get a job find a house and then bring you over to a safer land ? Round of applause very manly of you Hindog - maybe give your wife your pants though and put on her skirt.