Well is as is generally the "manly" thing to do wouldn't you think they would be embarking with a plan as any man would do to lead first find a job and find a house before bringing their wives and children ? Or you guys are of the nature that you throw your wife out first and expect her to take care of everything for you and your family ?
Geeez it appears some grumpy old men here might be that way because it doesn't sound like they are the ones wearing the pants at home.
