a question of the drinkers

I know this should be in "general" but sane people never go there.

Without making a coctail, what can you mix with Bailey's that would suit a lady with a moselle taste? Soda water and spumanti just curdle it.

I've always said "Any family can only afford one drunk" and I put my hand up early but on Fri nights I feel "she" has earned a drink.

Any suggestions?