Contrary, to what you said, I am not projecting onto all men.
In fact, these men who struggle with relationship need to observe the manner of those MEN who do not struggle.
I am a man.
Let me give you an example.
Where I live, two LOVELY women have started a business. They work many hours in their business. They enjoy this. They have a desire to succeed.
But their partners HATE the business. It THREATENS them.
But me, I am supportive of the ladies. When they have problems with their men, they talk to me. When one of the men has problems with her, I talk to him man to man. (The other man, I do not know well).
This needing the attention of women when a man expects it is a BIG PROBLEM.
I have a friend who dumped his lovely girlfriend because he was "not getting the attention he wanted". She wanted to spend some time overseas doing some community work.
Now he is with another girl but he is more stressed and unhappy than before.
A MAN WHO CANNOT LET A WOMAN LEAD WITH ALWAYS STRUGGLE.
A MAN WHO CANNOT GIVE A WOMEN INDEPENDENCE "WITHIN RELATIONSHIP" WILL ALWAYS STRUGGLE.
