Make the woman buy the drink (Chivalrously if that's possible) and your half way to finding someone who believes in equality of the sexes and isn't going to freeload off you.
Then again i'm young, foolish and not married so what do I know. By the way fellows about what age do you see this transformation >>?
I do think it's sad that our overtly masculine culture drives men away from seeking help for both physical and mental health problems especially if it stems from relationship issues.
