... and how about we cease this childish spat. People have...

... and how about we cease this childish spat. People have different circumstances, and come from different perspectives.

If you're trying to work out what's motivating someone to post negatively (or positively), then use whatever analytical powers you have, but no-one is entitled to demand evidence of others' holdings. For me, I'm neither entitled to know, nor the slightest bit interested.

If you don't like what another is saying, put up counter-argument, or simply ignore them.