Yes, it is pretty bad isn't it? IEO (in everyones opinion).
I know some have lost large on this and I really feel for them because they were robbed, not bad judgement or bad luck, theft. I know what it is like to lose a lot of dosh and assets, etc.
What can you say to those people right now, words mean so little. I truly hope you guys find some peace and get back to whatever place affords you some comfort.