It seems like you asking to hit with use of the "petulant" or...

It seems like you asking to hit with use of the "petulant" or "sulking in the corner" button! I have been and trust me your thoughts and life do not change. Sorry however, as you know this is not the forum to be giving advice, that has to be left to personal circumstances or professional advisor's who know their clients. I did make two suggestions which have not been acknowledged or, from what can be been, considered. I think that some here treat this site as a lonely hearts club and are constantly seeking assurance for their insecurity from being in this end of the market.