Mate Im also down..but the best thing to do I guess is to be honest with your wife about your investments.
I told my wife that I lost 10k yest on BNB. Its only money...money can be made back.
I personally know quite a few people who work at Babcock, and this selloff is definately aggagerated.
Hope, have a little faith, and be honest with your wife.
Thats my humble advice