it’s also very easy for men to lie. This is not a one way...

it’s also very easy for men to lie. This is not a one way street. My ex had posted on hotcopper about strangling me with all his justifications - just leaving out that he was trying to force me to sign over the house that I had slogged to buy to him. With zilch/zip contribution. When presented with what he wrote he lied. I tell stories all the time he said. Well that was true but the strangling story was too.

many of us have these experiences. We all deserve compassion but just as men yell out “not all men” and we know that, how about trying to imply that it’s women’s fault

put simply men and women frequently don’t understand each other and if there is an agenda going on as well - which I later discovered - then it’s impossible