Yes it can be a soul destroying exercise for manyBest thing you...

Yes it can be a soul destroying exercise for many

Best thing you can do is keep a cool head and be very methodical in how you approach it. Also if you have kids demonstrate your ability to have them 50% of the time ie change your life to work around you kid commitments. As a male you have to do this more to get the best outcome for both yoy and your kids.