Of possible interest to you, that language does not look good and doesn't exactly support your cause, case, on who is and isn't saved.
I only say this in that, as a kid in my school years, to a much smaller degree, I was probably quilting of similar language or probably more so thoughts that stayed within the mind. But when I look back now as to how and what some kids did and what that resulted in for many, shame still comes to mind.
These people are someones cherished baby, child, so to speak.
Most of us don't get to chose the house we live in, I am the opposite of the house you describe here and people it would seem, fee quite at ease to let me know and don't think twice about it. Often I will respond, why carry any extra around if I don't need it, generally the subject then dies fast lol. Fortunately for me, God likes my house, but is more interested in what's in it, so those sort of comments, flow off like water off a duck
