re: blackoil,
I am sorry Stolwyk but I must disagree
Profanity and smut is freely displayed on this site by posters, it one of the reasons females feel uncomfortable visiting here. I know of a few who refuse to visit due to the unacceptable levels of abuse t hat has become a hallmark of hotcopper.
On occasion I have noticed Miles becoming extremely abusive and using dirty language when discussing general matters, especially the Middle East.
Therfore I do not regard Miles as being suitable as a referee in this matter.
However I must commend you for the manner in which you conduct yourself and I wish you well in your endeavours.