Your premise is totally flawed in many aspects.
Primarily as you point out being ostracized does not necessarily turn you against the perpetrators, regardless if they are parents, teachers, bosses etc. What it does do is prepare you for the intolerable cruelty that society dishes out to the vulnerable, the weak, the stupid (if that's the term you desire to be used - a total anomaly). Decree by fear and power!
There are some, as you have previously disclosed, that become victims, who cower at the very thought of being punished and withdraw in fear. But..............................there are others who learn from their situation and rather than become dependent on the cycle of fear and intimidation learn to conquer it!
How? Well you start by becoming self aware, determine where you fit in, what is your position and then educate yourself so you can be better prepared when the 'system' tries to intimidate you into submission. Then having all the knowledge you have garnered be able to stand up and defend yourself against the tyranny, because you are educated!
Don't waste your time for the fear of driving people away, remember it's you, you have to live with not them! It's another one of those unsavoury norms that the social media hysteria has driven being scared of having no friends, no contacts, no thumbs up, no followers....................................'Oh dear' - nobody like me, I cant stand it, I'll just conform, I'll tell them what they want to hear, I'll do what they say then I'll have so many friends and I'll be happy gain? An illusion!
At the start of the influenza outbreak I was told these very words by a 'friend' to accept the AZ trial injection - "why don't you just make it easy on yourself and get the injections" - sorry bad advice at my age, and I don't need friends like that so I can go to the restaurant for dinner, I have a kitchen at home!
From what I gather no-one on these threads is trying convert anyone - it's all opinion based. No-one has the power of persuasion if you deny them that right! Weed out those who are insincere and those who are here to gather credible information and pass it on to assist with understanding of the situation they are in.
Keep your thumbs up I don't need them!
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