My shut up response was not to his question but because the word he used "Ignorant" however we got over it and we both are fine.
The other one name "barking" used word "hypocrite" so again told him to "shut up"
That's why I said be respectful and I am happy to answer the question or happy to debate.
Don't do personal attack on someone using words like hypocrite or ignorant etc.
If you disagree or didn't understand then simply say "sorry mate I didn't get what you said, can you please explain to me or sorry mate I disagree with you, because " Don't use aggressive words, don't use sarcasm and be polite.
I don't go and make a cup of tea for people being constant bully, instead I explain them in their own language as HC takes bit of time to take action.
