neither. In the first case let’s imagine you think you’ve found the man of your dreams and then he expects you to pay - for this and every dinner thereafter one way or the other. The reason for that sits in the second image - poor judgment, a tendency to pick duds, trading more shares in the space of a couple of years than any sane man and only a gambler would do and then the mayhem that ensues. Oh and he’s bald!
