If anyone was interested in an update I've separated from the missus and am in the process of coming to an agreement with my wife about our little man. Given her current work/study situation she has no option but to let him stay with me which will make me the primary carer and give her an uphill battle to take him out of the country. A tip for anyone in their 20s thinking of getting married, think with your head, not with your heart when your getting married. Undoing the mess of an 8 year relationship is absolutely gut wrenching and now my whole approach to the relationship is strategic in order to keep my little man.
