I agree with your observations on mail order brides Froggy. Its...

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    I agree with your observations on mail order brides Froggy. Its a short cut and one should aim to become the best person they can be, and provided youre hanging out in areas where equally good qualitity ladies are a good one will cross your path eventually. If youre a s..t person and you cant find a lady thats natures way of ensuring society gets only filled with good people. Obviously not as simple as that but anyway.

    Sadly the lessson for me isnt so clear as our relationship was as organic as you could imagine. She was a back packer and I was a tradesman in the same town and after 8 years of being together and 3 of being married and living here, and not close to her family I think that it has slowly dawned on her that she cant always go home as many times a years as she imagined and she has to actually stay here. That's what the fights about. 6 flights home in a 2 year period and I cracked it at her.

    For me I think that I should have been firm at the start in letting her fly home all the time and then this would have at least fallen apart sooner.
 
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