I was horrified when my wife became friends with a recently...

I was horrified when my wife became friends with a recently divorced lady through our kids.All i could see was a person that had every Wednesday night and every second weekend free to do what she liked.A new house and the ex tipping in heaps.
How good is that?
I was worried that my wife might like what she was seeing.
But the reality is her friend spends every weekend at nightclubs looking for love.The ex pays as little as possible and the kids play her off against their father every time they get disciplined.
I feel sorry for her.
The grass is not always greener.