Miranda,That is the beauty of these forums- you can make...

Miranda,

That is the beauty of these forums- you can make comments whether you hold or don't hold.

Feel lucky that there are so-called 'downrampers' here, because, if only 'uprampers' existed, there would be no balance/equilibrium.

If downrampers are causing you some anxiety, its probably because they are forcing you to confront issues you wouldn't without them.

So, read all the posts, and research anything you find relevant. Often you will have to go through a lot of rubbish before you find a gem.