cameras and photos don’t necessarily help. It much much harder than you think. In the lehrmann case it was about circumstances as much as anything. - there was a range of information which wasn’t direct evidence. DV is mixed bag. I’ve talked to enough women bd heard enough men and listened to enough DV workers to know how complex it is
people who think its all a matter of choice, as some do, have absolutely nfi- and put their own spin and can see it only through their own eyes.
and that is one of the reasons women feel trapped.
ive possibly done my dash on this topic. A perpetrator seldom takes responsibility- there is always something or someone to blame.
