aaah so this is a topic men are very sensitive about but it doesn’t bother them talking about women’s breasts, dress or make up. That’s apparently fair game. and therein lies part of the issue.
women are to be judged on male terms and men are not to be judged - but occasionally on male terms.
the case law on provocation as a defence tells its own story about deeply embedded attitudes.
as for wise men - what a good idea. If people are respectful and decent I’ll be that back. I won’t start the reverse but these days I won’t put up with crap. You know how you advised me about making choices. Hotcopper itself has been a useful education.
