so if it’s everyone’s problem - which it is - it is not simply a case of avoiding bad boys - it is a case of society changing to the point where bad boy behaviour is unacceptable
you also miss the point that every family violence worker knows - that it is not only so called bad boys that do this to women. It happens at every level of society, perpetrators might come from any occupation and they are not always obviously bad.
by the time it is obvious that they have an abusive and controlling character it is too late. If you need an explanation I’ll try to help you or you could research the topic - I can give you some resources.
your response feeds exactly the narrative that perpetuates the problem. I just don’t think you realise it
