if you actually read some of those links that were in my post...

if you actually read some of those links that were in my post

you would, if you sat and thought about it - find that mostly there are no such thing as 'bad men' and 'bad women'

there are mainly - in the vast majority of cases ----------- victims

generationally handed down violent people, domestic violence


mostly - it's nurture, not nature

Whilst there can be such things (most likely) as 'violence genes' - mostly it's nurture

but - and this is the BUT --------

no one can choose their genes ------------ and no one can choose their parents and how they are raised

and it's almost certainly that the lessons from being a young child - the culture and family one is raised in - that creates what one is

so - there really is not many cases of 'bad men' or 'bad women' ------------- it would be bloody rare to see a baby start of as 'bad'