indeed the appeasement problem that exists at group and individual level. her history and story would actually be interesting to know - but likely will not. i find it interesting that she went from one brother to another and that one reportedly on the spectrum. Given the characteristics he most likely exhibited that shift alone is strange. whatever she was like and I'm sure over time we will be given more "pictures" around that, a highly dominant partner with controlling tendencies orv determined personality and strong views, it is very likely her views and behaviours would have shifted - that is about survival. is it the case here - who knows but clearly he was prepared to kill for his views.
