@Margaret63 - Thanks! I had my little cry last night, happy today!! Happy to have known that wonderful and humorous man and had his children! Had I stayed in Europe I would have been most likely a successful but dour businesswoman with a 'career' but no family . . . wanted to become a translator for the United Nations (Geneva), hence went to England first to learn English, next stop: France to learn French - never got that far. came to 'Aussie' instead. . . . and I love this country and its people - they are a lot like my original people, except even more easy-going; I now get homesick for Australia when I visit over there Go well, dear Margaret Tau ❤️