@Margaret63 - what do I know, I have been moderated because I said about my best friend (who is not on HotCopper) that she is 4 1/2 ft tall and tough with it - and there is any amount of really bad propaganda happening on other threads - lies, untruths told, no-one interferes, dangerous advice, unproven suspicions, wrong statistics etc. and they don't get moderated. and: . . . maybe our friend isn't unhappy about it, he is unpredictable, probably doesn't care one way or the other. I know you are a really good sort, dear Margaret, you are steady, always the same, no bad intentions (and I have read your book which you recommended, recently met some people who actually live that sort of life - I try my best too, but don't expect a reward) so hopefully, no objection. Take care Taurisk