Personally, I've heard many things going on in this forum and I would be very very very careful of what one reads. Continual harping, stalking and spinning of stories dressed up as the freeings and healing of emotional hurt might well be concerted efforts to what's called --- 'white ant' previous partners.
When people earn their living by manipulating other people - it's their actual job and they are paid to do it with words - one should treat all with extreme caution.
Such stories would be a good example -- I've been told that stories about one partner recording conversations of both partners ----------- well - that might well be true ------- but, it's often what's NOT said that is the misleading part ------------ and, in some cases --------- what's not said is that recordings are made of official directors meetings for the purposes of fulfilling obligations of trusts and the like and all are fully informed and in agreement
'some' people would just fail to mention things like that. Often, the continual mentioning of such events is really displaying ones personal level of discomfort in what is clearly in those recordings. One would have to be especially careful of people who make their living from specialising in areas such as 'white anting' and have as a personal claim to fame to be able to 'cry at will' and manipulate people ------------------- I would personally suggest that a long winded campaign of attacks on a public forum that was based on investment would give one a heads up that there may well be a motive that isn't exactly showing itself on the surface ------- one should perhaps either look deeper or at the very least - take all one reads with a grain of salt. There are some very intelligent people out there in the world who have been hurt and respond in the most inappropriate ways - question everything - particularly when you are hearing ONLY from the one party and, realise that it would be pure folly to believe what one party says when you have not ever heard the other side. One thing I have learned in life is that some people just cannot accept to be walked away from - not for someone else - but, just because life is unbearable to be with them and life alone is far more preferable - some people just can't handle that. -- My suggestion ------- be careful what you read and especially careful in what you believe - some of us consider airing personal matters on public forums as inappropriate. Very often if one hears the other side of the story - there's events that would make the hair stand up on one's neck.
ps - for those who do not know the term 'white anting' --------------- it's spreading seeds of negativity about someone - just seeds to which a little fertiliser now and then aid the growth of rot and decay - it's used to bring down a person - it can be in an organisation, a family, a tribe or any group - we've all seen it in action - some of us are quick to realise it and some are oblivious -------- beware - it exists
