@kingpins hi!!! harsh judgment! - we can all learn, sometimes we learn too late! big job, educating everyone! - I have given up, sometimes there is only 'life' to teach lessons. Happy Valentine's Day saw Hubby's photo when he was a young man in daughter's new house - pinned on a cupboard - she loved her father - and I cried even after all these years - he was a beautiful human being, inside and out. Some people we never forget but we honour them by thinking of them with gratitude! X Taurisk