@Joannie - dear JoJo - thankyou - today I decided to remove 'the shrine' which is a pin-board in the entrance of my house dedicated just to her - I'll replace it with the many humorous photos I have of all the family and friends, too.
These days I often wonder how come I had such a wonderful child . . . . sheer luck, but the other two girls were pretty children, too, did well at school and are doing useful jobs, are both working for their living and have friends who love them, too. So that's 'mission accomplished' for me.
I hope to talk with you via phone - probably during or after the holidays - as i have family coming over here for Easter and there is still much to accomplish around here.
