While I agree with the majority of what you write here Copper, and the large rabbit Warren of moral development from childhood in religious homes exist, this moral "concentration camp" at home only serves to raise consciousness of right and wrong. It does not remove free will.
Every moment of our lives as adults, having been trained in the most excellent of educations is surrounded by questions, to which we either answer yes to, or no to, or have so much apathy that we don't even realise a question is being asked.
However, the questions we do realise are being asked and we mentally process within our carefully formed moral framework, there exists a will and we are totally free to answer within the moral framework or go outside of the moral framework.
It happens to me as a Bahai every. The key is to be more mindful of the spiritual oriented questions being presented through observation of reality and to act upon more and more of the questions within the moral framework than not
