Hi goldensnapper, sounds like you have a very happy set up mate....

Hi goldensnapper, sounds like you have a very happy set up mate. All I prefer is that kids have a mum and dad and yours do so I wouldn't change it mate, I agree with you. As to kids out of wed lock not sure it matters anymore.

I say that mate as you did the right thing and it bit you so to speak i.e. your comment "I have been married and divorced, wasn’t my choice". So if it's working why change it? I wouldn't risk it myself.

It sounds like you had a bit of a rough trot for a while mate but I always like to think what goes around comes around and now in your case it looks like you finally got the good stuff you deserved.

Just my thoughts mate but I must admit I am stoked to hear things are going so well for you now. Good luck BTW.