Guys, we don't choose anything. We don't choose when we are born, Life does. We don't choose when we die, Life does. We don't even choose what happens in our lives!.... it only appears that way. Free will has been studied scientifically and found to be illusory. http://io9.com/5975778/scientific-evidence-that-you-probably-dont-have-free-will So if everything that happens is not my will, then I could say that it is Life's will (or "God's" will). It's not as silly as it sounds.