OK psychiatrist. Explain why consensual sex between a 16 year old girl and a 45 year old man is quite alright while consensual sex between a 14 year old girl and a 45 year old man warrants hounding the man out of every place he goes or even killing him in mob violence.
Explain why the 14-year old is psychologically marred for life while the 16-year old is not.
Swap boy for girl and woman for man and explain why sex with an older woman destroys a boy's psychiatric equilibrium. As it must if a girl is marred for life by sex with an older man, by the law of reciprocity it must ruin boys, or should it only apply for girls???
Note consensual sex I said. Non-consensual sex is rape and inherently involves violence or control no matter who does it to who.
Explain that then I've got some more questions for ya.
